Seringkali suami melupakan jasa isteri yang sehari-hari bekerja melayanai kebutuhan keluarga di rumah…Berikut ini dialog antara psikolog dan suami yang selalu mengeluh karena sang istri tidak bekerja layaknya wanita karir. Semoga bermanfaat dan kita selalu renungkan bersama demi keutuhan dan kebahagiaan keluarga di rumah.
“Because Your Wife DOES NOT WORK….???”
A husband complains for feeling tired… tired and tired…. and wants his wife help him on earning money by also working, because so far he thinks that his wife is not working.
Following are Question and Answer between The Husband (H) and The Psychologist (P):
P : What do you for a living Mr. Bandy?
H : I work as an Accountant in a Bank.
P : Your Wife ?
H : She doesnt work. Shes a Housewife only.
P : Who make breakfast for your family in the morning?
H : My Wife, because she doesnt work.
P : At what time your wife wake up for making breakfast?
H : She wakes up at around 5am because she cleans the house first before
P : How do your kids go to school?
H : My wife take them to school, because she doesnt work.
P : After taking kids to school, what does she do?
H : She goes to the market, then go back home for cooking and laundrying
clothes. You know, she doesnt work.
P : In the evening, after you go back home from office, what do you do?
H : Take rest, because im tired due to all day works.
P : What does your wife do then?
H : She prepares meals, serving our kids, preparing meals for me and
cleaning the dishes, cleaning the house then taking kids to bed.
From the story above, who do you think work more???
The daily rounities of your wives commence from early morning to late at
night. That is called DOESNT WORK??!!
Yes, Being Housewives do not need Certificate of Study, even High
Position, but their ROLE/PART is very important! Appreciate your wives. Because their sacrifices are uncountable. This should be a reminder and reflection for all us to understand and appreciate each others roles. Understanding and Appreciating each other will make each person feel Happy. Remember also that our Prophet (SallAllaahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) used to help his wives on house working:
It is narrated on the authority of Abu Hurayrah (radiyAllaahu anhu) that he said: I asked Aa`ishah (radiyAllaahu anha) what the Messenger of Allah (SallAllaahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) used to do in the house. She said: “He used to help with the housework and when it was time to pray he would leave for the prayer ” [Al-Bukhari: 676]
Bless us ya Rabb with Righteous spouses (I love Allah.com 13 Februari 2013)